Selasa, 29 Januari 2013

just for debate


This house believe that my student caught, cheating on an examination should be automatically dismissed from college.
Definition à caught, cheating on an examination is plagiarism the task and automatically is just give punishment to not graduate and should be out from college.
Affirmative à from education point of view this is true because we should decrease plagiarism. We should decrease plagiarism with educate our student to be independent if they in an examination and give punishment for student who doing plagiarism with college give warning to not graduated and should be out from the college. We should give attention for Indonesia education, with say no to plagiarism to increase the quality of education. We have prove from metro tv  show that Menteri Pendidikan said that education in Indonesia should be increase for quality and we should minimize the quantity of plagiarism and eradicate the plagiarism. So, to educate student we should be agree with this motion.
Negativeà from education and psychology point of view this is not good because this is a hard punishment. We should pay attention for student that they have reason to cheating or caught because why? Student cheating is to get inspiration not copy all the task from their friend. Then, if student give this punishment how with their future? If students DO from college, usually they will get a trouble to register again in another college. And this is will give bad effect for their psychology because this is will make student stress because they have afraid feeling to do something if they have difficulties to do the examination and they will afraid if lecture know they cheating and will make they not focus with their examination, so, why we disagree with this motion today.
This house wife support sexuality education in school
Definition : give sex education lesson for reproduction system and the disease of free sex in school
Affirmative à from education and social point of view this is give advantages for student and can decrease the effect of less information about sex. This is can give student information about sex and the disease from free sex. This is will give advantages to decrease the problem of free sex and the disease.
Negative à from education point of view, give education about sex not only give sex education in the school but, in home the student surely give the education about reproduction system first. For example when they first experience menstruation or wet dream. Then I think this is unnecessary because student will learn about it in biology lesson, so teacher should not give the education about it. So, why we disagree with the motion. 



thanks to Rhesi Gabriella ;)

Minggu, 20 Januari 2013

Leslie an Ugly Caterpillar



Once upon a time, there was a little caterpillar called Leslie. She was an ugly caterpillar. She was fat and couldn’t walk quickly. The only beautiful thing about her was  she had agleam eyes. It was like two shining jewels. Leslie didn’t  live alone in Neverland, she lived with  Bufo the bee, Pincher the locust and Binks the bumblebee. But no one wanted to be her friend. They always derided her as an ugly and fat insect.
One day as usual in the morning she started finding some food in the tree. Leslie wanted to find green leaves for her breakfast, but she met  her friends. Leslie was unwilling to meet them because she did want to be derided by them. “ Morning ugly Leslie” said Bufo, Pincher and Binks together. They started to deride her. Then Leslie  decided to leave them and tried to find other leaves in another branch. She began walking very slowly and their friends pursued her. They derided her again. “We can fly wherever I wanna go” said Bufo and Binks. “ And I can jump everytime and it doesn’t need long time to move” said Pincher. “ And what can you do? Your walk is slowly, and your work is only eating. It makes your body fat and can’t walk quickly” said them. Leslie stopped her walk “ Don’t judge me, if you don’t know about me. Please stop your derition” said Leslie.
Leslie cried and went away. Suddenly Leslie slipped and fell down. In the ground there was ant’s colony, they found caterpillar fell from the tree. They overwhelm Leslie, bit and dragged her to their house. Leslie tried to fight for her life. She would never die before she changed herself to a beautiful butterfly. She streched her body but she can’t, so many ants were beside her. She screamed in pain and asked for help to her friends but her friends just looked at her. They couldn’t do anything and they dicided to fly and went away.  She was  never desperated, she continued to strech until the ants inattentive and she fleed. She ran away very quickly as possible as she could. Finally with all of her sefforts she could flee and was safe from ant’s colony. 
Leslie decided to move on another tree, she couldn’t live with her friends who didn’t like her. On the way Leslie cried and complained to God “ Oh my God. I always pray for you, but why you give me this. I‘m not sure, I can exceed it” complained Leslie to her God. Leslie was angry with the God because the God didn’t care with her. In her heart she asked a question why the God predestined her as an ugly caterpillar.
 Then she saw a dragonfly  tried to fly,  her wings were broken. She tried and tried again, but she couldn’t. She cried but she couldn’t do anything. Leslie felt mercy with her but didn’t brave enough to approach her. Leslie decided to leave the dragonfly.  “ What have I done, oh my God forgive  me” said leslie in her  heart. She realized her fault. She shouldn’t complain to the God. The God had given herb many luxuriou things to her since she was born until now but Leslie even violated the fate. She was lucky because she was safe from ant’s colony that wanted to eat her and she could fly if she changed into butterfly unlike the dragonfly that couldn’t fly anymore.
Finally Leslie found her new house in small tree, she could eat the leaves as many as she wanted. Then she grown and stopped eating, she became a pupa, after a week she became a beautifull butterfly with agleam eyes. She could fly and went back to the old tree for meeting her friends Bufo, Pincher and Binks. They were suprised with Leslie. They didn’t know her , but they knew the agleam eyes was Leslie’s eyes. All of her friend felt jealous and said sorry to Leslie. They asked Leslie to live with them in the tree again and Leslie agreed with their request. Now Leslie lived happily and had friends who cared with her.
THE END

The Effect of Playing Playstation for Children


In globalization era technology improves very fast, one of them is game. Nowadays many game industries which suply various types of modern games such as Playstation. There are many variant of Playstation, like Playstation 1, 2 and 3. Playstation has many types of game programs as Winning Eleven, PES, Grand Thef Auto, Harvestmoon, Golf, Teken, etc. Playstation also attracts many people from children to adult. Besides  Playstation is interesting game, it gives real damage too especially for children.
Firstly playstation make children forget about the traditional game. They prefer modern game like as Playstation than traditional game such as Gobak Sodor, Congklak, Nekeran, Petak Umpet, Gasing, etc. They feel shy when playing traditional game and assume which the traditional game is ancient. Whereas  the traditional game can dedactic for children for example Gobak Sodor make children can learn about friendship, togetherness, and techinque.  Congklak make the children learn about patience and honesty. The other traditional game can prevent erosion of mental.
Second, Playstation causes the players to be addicted. Children who once play Playstation will have desire to play again and again until they spend a lot of money in Playstation rent ( if they don’t have PS in their homes). In the article entitled “Peds for Parents” by Dr. Douglas a. Gentile Ph.D, a developmental psichologiest and the director of research for The National Institute on Media and The Family conducted a research with children and adult, and said that playing a violent game for hours everyday could decrease school performance and aggresive behaviour (Douglas : 2012). If the children often play a violent game ( like Grand Thef Auto,Teken, boxing, etc), it can make their psychology disturbed. It also can cause bullying with their friends because the children more aggresive than the others. Another damages is the children don’t want to go to school. They become lazy to go to school and understimate their tasks.
Third, research has documented negative effect of video game on children’s physical health including obesity, video – incuded selzures and nerve compresion (Douglas : 2012). Children who’re playing Playstation continuously, their health can be disturbed. The radiation from TV screen can cause their eyes tired, feel stiff, smarting, discomfort and they will get sight disease. The effusion of radiation can react with body. Effusion of radiation causes atom abdicate electron be ions. If it occurs in their body and it continues, millions cell in their bodies will die and corrupt brain’s nerves.
Actually, not all of the games on Playstation give bad damage. Douglas also said on his article if video games are natural teacher. Children find themselves highly motivated by the virtue of their interactive natures. Children are activelly engaged with them, they provide repeated practice and they include rewards for skillful play (Douglas : 2012). Playstation not only  contains violent games, but also game for teaching the children for example Harvestmoon can teach the children to be patient and decipline, Most Wanted can teach the children to drive a car carefully, Golf can improve the children’s actual control of force, etc. The children also enjoy spending their free time easily.
In short, Playstation gives many damage for children. The negative damages are playstation make children forget about the traditional game, caused the players to be addicted and disturb the player’s healths. However Playstation not only give bad effect, but also good effect. Playstation can use for teaching the children. Parents should guide their children when playing playstation, so the child can divide the time to play and learn.

bibliography:  Douglas.A.Gentile,Ph.D.2012(online).http://www.pedsforparents.com/articles/2791.shtml

Jumat, 04 Januari 2013

Cerita Pagi ini


Sabtu pagi, hari yang membuatku merasa begitu  malas untuk berangkat kuliah. Hari dimana anak-anak yang lain sedang bermalas-malasan di rumah, sedangkan aku harus berangkat menuntut ilmu. Apalagi matahari pagi tak menampakkan sinarnya dan saat aku berangkat gerimis datang, mood ku untuk berangkat kuliah langsung drop. Dengan mata yang masih terkantuk-kantuk akibat menyelesaikan tugas writing yang terlalu larut sehingga menyita waktu tidurku. Yah memang aku tidak berbakat menulis. Apalagi harus membuat narrative text, Mendongeng memang bukan aku. Aku akan menulis jika ada ide, sayangnya malam tadi ide itu sulit untuk muncul sementara aku lebih tertarik untuk menyelesaikan membaca novel baruku “I FOR YOU” sebuah novel karya Orizuka terbitan GagasMedia. Novel yang tebalnya 380 halaman itu harus kuselesaikan saat itu juga. 
Dibanding menulis aku lebih suka membaca. Aku  hanya membutuhkan waktu 4 jam untuk menyelesaikan novel “HARRY POTTER” yang tebalnya ratusan halaman. Tapi entah kenapa pada saat aku membaca novel itu waktu terus bejalan dengan cepat, hingga aku menghabiskan membaca novel itu  selama 6 jam TANPA MELAKUKAN APAPUN selain membaca pastinya. Untung saat itu ibu tidak ada di rumah, dia yang selalu mengomeliku jika aku terlalu larut dalam membaca Novel J. Akhirnya aku menyelesaikan tugas writing itu dengan susah payah dan saat itu waktu menunjukkan pukul 01.35 WIB. Selepas itu ku matikan laptopku dan beranjak ke kamar, tidur pulas sampai ke esokan harinya.
Seperti biasa ritualku sebelum ke kampus, aku selalu mampir ke tempat kos sohibku. Tapi pagi ini benar-benar membuat aku enggan berangkat ke kampus.  sampai aku bertemu dengan mereka. Iya, mereka berdua yang berhasil mengubah moodku hari ini. Mereka yang selama ini ku kagumi diam-diam. Sepertinya bertemu dengan mereka itu seperti memberi isi ulang otakku yang mulai kosong. Mereka motivatorku untuk semangat ke kampus. Meskipun aku tak mengenalnya, namun melihat dan mengagumi nya dari jauh itu sudah cukup. 
Aku terlambat masuk ke kelas,  bersyukur ternyata dosennya juga belum datang J. Pada saat dosen datang dengan senyum sumringah ku kumpulkan tugasku yang susah payah ku kerjakan tadi malam. Keluar dari kelas aku berjalan pulang dan  ما شاء الله  mereka masih disana.. melihat mereka ditempat yang sama saat aku berangkat tadi dan mendapati mereka tersenyum membuat senyumku kembali merekah *padahal aku tau senyuman itu pasti bukan untukku hhaha.. :P. Temanku mulai menyadari keanehanku dan mereka bertanya aku menjawab. “ngga ada apa-apa” tapi aku tahu mereka masih menyimpan tanda tanya. J


Selasa, 01 Januari 2013

Sahabatku.. (:


Ketika aku tak mampu untuk berjalan
Ketika aku tak bisa berdiri,
Ketika aku lelah
Ketika aku tak sanggup lagi melewati setiap ujian
Ada mereka yang sanggup menuntunku, menggandengku
dan mendampingiku..
Sahabatku..
terimakasih telah memberi warna dalam kehidupanku
menciptakan canda, tawa, tangis dan bahagia
aku tanpa kalian ibarat rumah tanpa tiang
yang takkan pernah bisa berdiri tegak
yang mudah roboh atau bahkan tak bisa berdiri
Maafkan aku, aku tak mampu untuk menjadi sahabat yang baik
Namun kalian adalah sahabat terbaikku.
Kau harus tau bahwa bahagia mu itu bahagiaku
dan tangismu itu adalah tangisku


J for my beloved friends     þ Mustikaning Ayu S
                                            þ Afifah WindyaN
      þ Erma Farida SPD

me..


Semacam berada di ujung tebing yang sama ketika aku terjatuh kedalam lubang hitam yang tak berdasar itu lagi. Mencoba untuk kembali, namun langkah kaki ini tetap bertahan.. hidup memang pilihan, tapi saat ini aku tak tau yang mana yang harus ku pilih. Memang sulit untuk menggunakan logika di dalam kondisi seperti ini. Sepertinya hati dan pikiran tak bisa sejalan.. Apa yang harus ku lakukan. Disaat kata hati mulai membisu dan semua omongan orang tak lagi bisa ku dengar, .. melihat di sebarang sana ada sebuah keindahan yang takkan pernah bisa kunikmati jika aku masih tetap disini. Tapi aku takut, jika itu hanyalah semacam fatamorgana atau sebuah ilusi dari fikiranku semata..
Jika memang harus melompat, aku takut jengkal kaki ku tak bisa menggapainya, kaki ku terlalu pendek untuk bisa melewati lembah keputusasaan ini. Jika hanya berdiam diri disini aku tak ubahnya sebongkah batu yang tak bernilai. Tuhan, apa yang harus ku lakukan. . tunjukkan jalanMu padaku, hanya Engkau Sang Maha Pemberi Petujuk (:

Sabtu, 29 Desember 2012

hari ini

          Hari ini akhirnya bisa menghabiskan waktu bersama-sama sahabat tersayang,.. setelah sekian lama terpisah oleh ruang dan waktu # ceile.. :D . Aku rindu canda tawa mereka, dan akhirnya sore tadi aku bisa melihatnya kembali, berkumpul kembali bersama 3 anak manusia ( Tika, Erma dan Afifa) yang punya segudang impian dan khayalan yang tinggi yang  bisa terwujud dengan Kehendak-Nya. sebenarnya jika Tuhan mengizinkan akan kuputar kembali jam yang telah berjalan dan membuatnya berhenti sejenak. aku enggan meninggalkan moment yg kita habiskan bersama-sama.  semoga janji yang kita buat tadi bisa segera terwujud .. Aminn (._.)